Female, anti feminist, egalitarian.
I'm against sexism of all kinds but there are plenty of blogs whose sole focus is on women but very few even recognise that sexism does not equal Man against Woman.
This blog focuses on Misandry: The hatred, discimination or distrust of men and boys. Pointing out the representation of men in the media, deliberate misinformation/misrepresentation, the demonisation of men in our society and the imbalance this causes.
Rather than think of ourselves as in competition we should cater to everyone as needed.
If you think I'm being unfair to other women just know that I consider all sides of an argument, normally I prefer to be the fence. But for the purposes of this blog I have taken a side so apologies if this offends you.
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Another so called “feminist friend of mine” unfriended me and called me a evil, rape loving, nazi pig! Just because my opinion is opposite to her’s *sigh* feminist their stupidity never ends
It’s amazing how they somehow see rape even in posts like this. They really do have an unhealthy preoccupation with it.
Women Against Womyn: lovelogicrainbows: Has anyone else noticed this trend on father’s day…
Has anyone else noticed this trend on father’s day versus mother’s day?
On mother’s day, it’s always, “Happy mother’s day to all you moms out there, you’re amazing”, etc.
On father’s day, it’s always, “Happy father’s day to all the awesome dads out there who are a…
you are literally the shittiest type of person out there, do you know that?
How dare you give a toss about fathers, how dare you not worship every single mother, MISOGYNY!
Creep shaming is sexist and wrong. Just look at Creepshots; a blog dedicated to appreciating womens beauty weather they like it or not. But women have to get all OFFENDED saying that it’s ‘sexist’ against them to take pictures without their consent and then write about how we’d love to rape them. Jeeze, take it as a compliment!
Besides, there’s absolutely NO DIFFERENCE between that, and me being in the background of a random persons photo. If feminists really wanted equality, they’d understand that, but they have to make it ALL about them and their whole ‘rape is bad’ propoganda. They have no personal accountability. Womens bodies exist for us Males to want to fuck, and if you walk around your house naked and get creepshot by a computer hacker, you’re a slut who’s begging for it.
Only when people get just as angry and my image being in the background of tourists photos will we truly be equal :*(
You’re damn right it’s wrong! And you know who’s a creep? MEN. ALL THE MENS. Creepshots is the worst. How would men like it if some womyn went around taking crotchshots of guys on public transportation?! No woman ever would do that, and that’s how you know it’s sexist!
If a woman did do it though. It wouldn’t be taking pictures without their consent at all because as men, they can’t ever be victims of sexism. You can’t be invasive to the oppressive majority.
And rape is bad you asshat! It’s people like you that think that all men everywhere don’t rape that keep rape culture going! IF YOU REALLY WANTED EQUALITY YOU WOULD STOP SEPARATING THE CONCEPT OF “MEN” FROM “RAPIST”! THEY ARE THE SAME THING.
And fuck you and your personal accountability bullshit. Why should women have to take precautions to avoid danger? Do men have to do that? EVER? NO. I think not. Men can literally parachute into dark alleys covered in gold and diamonds and never have anything bad happen to them ever.Women’s bodies don’t exist for anything but feminism you mra scum. If I walk around naked in my house, all of you MRA would be DYING TO EVEN GLANCE AT THE GODESS THAT IS MY BODY BECAUSE EVERYONE KNOWS: ALL FEMINISTS ARE ATTRACTIVE.
And you’re damn right we’re going to hold an entire gender accountable every time someone does something bad. I mean if we didn’t how else would people know how all Muslims are terrorists?!
Sounds like some little fedora wearing my little pony watching small dicked white cis het male is angry that everything in his life isn’t going his way.
WAAAAAAHHHH. Cry more dudebro.
New favorite satire blog
Do feminists want default mother-custody?
No. Short answer. Default mother-custody relies on generalisations about gender roles and parenting, i.e that the mother is the primary care giver, that women are better at nurturing, that men don’t want to be the primary care-giver etc. Stereotypical gender roles define us and restrict us all, so we reject them. It neglects the rights of fathers too.
Default joint-custody is definitely not a good idea either though, the last thing kids need are warring parents being forced into contact, and using them as psychological weapons, guilting and confusing them about parental loyalty.
Default father-custody? No. That is what we fought against in the late 1800’s, it neglects the rights of mothers. However. We have moved on from the late 1800’s, we are further forward in rejecting traditional gender-roles, the women’s rights advocates of today will not argue that a mothers rights outweigh the father’s.
No default custody! Mediation and streamlined court cases for all child custody cases, because fathers and mothers and children are all individuals and you cannot make a default based on a generalisation, it is reductionist and we reject your generalisations.Feminists are the one who advocated for default mother custody in the first place. So it’s traditional gender roles when whichever one gets custody?
Feminists who advocate default mother custody are, in my opinion, thinking very short-sightedly, because it reinforces traditional gender roles.
I don’t know, maybe it is traditional gender roles if anyone got default custody, because historically fathers have had the role of owning the children. and traditionally mothers have had the role of caring for the children.
Therefore there should not be default custody, because whichever way it works it hinges on gender, and that is not fair, because we are all individuals.
Only non-default custody treats us as individuals and doesn’t enforce gender roles.
It just implies that the perception of women is your primary motivation. I agree that default custody is unfair whichever way it goes, just like “primary aggressor” policies are unfair and biased and neither are based on facts. Putting any issue solely at the door of one gender has never proved to be accurate.
Don’t reject default custody because it might make people see women a certain way, reject it because it doesn’t work. Base your objections on fact, not conjecture.
seperation between men and women in feminism.
women… if i call you out on being wrong on something… it’s not because i’m a man and have little respect for your opinions. it’s because you’re fucking wrong. have you ever considered that i might just not agree with you and that not all men are sexist? i don’t identify with the majority of males. that’s why i like feminism. i don’t believe i’m a bad person because i’m not like most males. i don’t believe i’m a bad person because i’m feminine. but why do so many of you show me no love at all? take everything i do as an assault. if you call out every guy as a sexist who disagrees with you, then you are sexist…. i don’t give a fuck if a lot are wrong to you. don’t judge me for my penis. god damn. this is why so many men are against feminism in the first place. why would we respect you if you don’t respect us? you use the same argument but don’t put it into practice. i’m done. i’m done. i don’t want to talk to any more feminist ever again. i was wrong to assume any of them would be kind or someone i could relate too. from this point on. if someone says they’re a feminist. i’ll just cringe and ask them what that means exactly. because i’m tired of constantly being accused of being a rapist or an abuser when i was abused and molested growing up. FUCK OFF ALL OF YOU!
Fashion is made to become unfashionable: Fuck fathers day
how about
HAPPY AWESOME SINGLE MOTHERS DAY WHO PLAY BOTH ROLES BECAUSE THEY’RE FUCKIN’ KICKASS.
We have that already it’s called mothers day….
-Morgantumblr depresses me at times…
Sorry man, some of us had single mothers…
That’s cool and all, but I think the point is that you shouldn’t completely disregard father appreciation just because some people have daddy issues. And this is coming from someone who’s father has been in and out of jail for half of my life. If you want to appreciate the two women in your life for taking care of you on Father’s Day, that’s great, but don’t sit here and dismiss an entire holiday or people celebrating their fathers because of your own personal issues. I have yet to see someone say “Fuck Mother’s Day let’s appreciate the single fathers out there”, so it confuses the hell out of me that people are offended about a holiday that allows you to appreciate the other side. The world doesn’t revolve around you and your issues.
I was literally going by what mine and my (majority of) friends’ experiences with parentage has been like, I have friends who have been raised by their fathers and their fathers alone, and I respect that.
I just wanted to thank my ‘father’, A.K.A my mother and nan who were also father role models.I did not mean to undermine every single father in the world. I did not mean to impose my ‘daddy issues’ on others.
I just wanted to thank my mum and nan. I am so sorry. I did not mean to cause offence by thanking my kickass mumma and nan.
But even if that wasn’t what you meant to do that’s EXACTLY what you did. What If on mothers day I went FUCK MOTHERS DAY! SHOULD BE SINGLE FATHERS DAY FOR ALL THE SINGLE FATHERS WHO FILL BOTH ROLES! it would be immensely disrespectful towards every great mother out there and this post is no different
i heard the perfect description of MRAs yesterday
this kid was complaining about the being the youngest kid in his family
and everyone else there was the oldest and we were all “shut up the youngest is always so spoiled” and he said
“yeah, but we get criticized for being spoiled”
THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT MRAS ARE COMPLAINING ABOUT
BEING CRITICIZED FOR HAVING PRIVILEGES
This is really rather interesting. Do you want to know why? Well, you probably don’t, but we’re going to tell you anyways. This is basically a perfect description of “reframing the issue.” What’s so interesting about that? Well, mostly that a large portion of the feminist movement is devoted to doing precisely that.
“Men get conscripted and subjected to the horrors of war, and that’s a problem!” ”Well, the real problem is that women are seen as (read: “criticized for being”) weak.”
We’re heard it about a thousand times, on almost as many issues. We point out female privilege, yet supposedly the “real” problem is the fact that people’s acknowledgement or justification of that privilege paints women in a negative light. How horrible.
Being privileged isn’t an inherently bad thing. Not recognizing one’s privileges and failing to recognize when others don’t have said privileges are bad, but the simple act of having privilege is value-neutral.
Even if you were right, that’s not “EXACTLY WHAT MRAS ARE COMPLAINING ABOUT”; there are plenty of examples of institutional discrimination against men.
Thought so, there’s a lot of good stuff but I’m also somewhere between guilty pleasure and disapproving of more aggressive people.
vegan-butter said: that is NOT the point of feminism jesus h. christ i don’t know where you’re getting your information
It may not be the point but its what people are saying, how dare women say they aren’t safe on the streets, its not just women that are the victims they need to get their act together. Plus women have the same fucking rights as everyone else.
Men are overwhelmingly the victims of public sphere violence, they still aren’t as afraid of it as women who have never been.
I’d also like to point this out. If I’m doing my math right 7,016 more MEN were killed than women.
Wow.
I bet that’s misogyny somehow.
Here is a list of articles on the subject of boys getting more and more behind in schools.
In many countries rape is defined as a woman being penetrated by a man without her consent, in many western countries there was no age of consent for boys until recently. It’s legal for a woman to rape a man the same way it’s legal for a male rapist to get custody of his victim’s child and for a female one to sue her victim for child support. A lot of the devastating problems are caused by the exclusionary laws and many feminist policies include lies by omission, such as listing rates of DV then implying it’s solely man against woman by only mentioning the women who die from it and not then men.
What Tumblr Feminists have taught me about women
Tumblr Feminist
Women are just as strong as men: physically, mentally, and emotionally. Women are independent. We can dress how ever we want no matter what. We have the freedom of choice to believe whatever we want. We are always self confident and capable as men. Our physical stature does not restrict us from doing what men can do. And all issues that either gender faces is equally serious and damages everyone.
And if you disagree with this, then you are misogynistic rape apologist.
And that is why I am a feminist.
The very same Tumblr Feminist
When it comes to female on male rape, it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t even make sense. Women are naturally smaller then men. Us women cannot overpower men. That is why domestic violence towards a man done by his wife/girlfriend shouldn’t be taken seriously. He can leave. He can easily hold her down. He will always be naturally stronger and bigger. Women, on the other hand, cannot leave their husband/boyfriend. Society has forced us women to be dependent on men. Not only we are forced to raise the kids, but it is hard to get hired in this male controlled society. Speaking of kids, if we are even allowed to divorce our oppressor, we still are expected to raise the kids. And even by the off chance that a woman is abusive, which he had it coming if that’s the case, we are still expected to raise the kids. Because society sees us only as baby machines.
And if you disagree with this, then you are misogynistic rape apologist.
And that is why I need feminism.
So I found a tumblr earlier that was kind of along the same lines as yours/anti-feminist, but for the life of me I cannot remember how I found it, or the name.
The theme was like completely centered (vs this them of two columns), it was run by (I think) a non-cis person (I’m not quite sure of the lingo), and I want to say it said something about “Dr. C”, or something like that.
Does that ring a bell to you or any of your followers?
Edit: they’ve found it.
Who was it?
vegan-butter said: that is NOT the point of feminism jesus h. christ i don’t know where you’re getting your information
It may not be the point but its what people are saying, how dare women say they aren’t safe on the streets, its not just women that are the victims they need to get their act together. Plus women have the same fucking rights as everyone else.
Men are overwhelmingly the victims of public sphere violence, they still aren’t as afraid of it as women who have never been.
Why do feminists get so offended when anyone points out that women also commit sexual/violent offences yet they expect men to be just fine with being called rapists?When anyone is offended at them labelling all men as rapists they say “what about teh menz” or something about “male tears” even when they’re not male and in no way emotional. So, if you don’t like every single man being called a rapist you’re pathetic.
Then when you show them stats saying that sexual and violent crimes are committed by all types of people and gender is irrelevant, they get so hysterical. You’re supposed to lie down and take it, or else “man tearz” but suggest that men don’t commit every crime and they don’t half whinge about it.
Yet another example of projection.
