Female, anti feminist, egalitarian.
I'm against sexism of all kinds but there are plenty of blogs whose sole focus is on women but very few even recognise that sexism does not equal Man against Woman.
This blog focuses on Misandry: The hatred, discimination or distrust of men and boys. Pointing out the representation of men in the media, deliberate misinformation/misrepresentation, the demonisation of men in our society and the imbalance this causes.
Rather than think of ourselves as in competition we should cater to everyone as needed.
If you think I'm being unfair to other women just know that I consider all sides of an argument, normally I prefer to be the fence. But for the purposes of this blog I have taken a side so apologies if this offends you.
I answer all asks privately unless otherwise requested or anonymous.
”I’m a real feminist, I don’t hate men! *reblogs and follows Misandry-Mermaid blaming men for all rape and how women are victims and should be more paranoid rather than strong*”
Lol pls stop
first, no it’s not “bullshit”
second, i stand by my response. male empowerment is literally everywhere in our culture and the fact that these boys want to take over a space that’s been set aside for female students is rude and i don’t think it’s cute that they were mocking it, and saying things like “girl power” in a mocking voice.
please take a deep breath and think about it for a few minutes
if you want to discuss it, i’m happy to but let’s pull back on the rudeness just a touch.
They never wanted to “take over” a space
They wanted to know if THERE WAS ANOTHER SPACE
And if male empowerment is “literally everywhere in our culture” how come men have a much higher suicide rate than women, men are told to “man up” when they express any emotion, our education system caters to female learning patterns which causes males to do worse in school, and there is very little support for male domestic violence and rape victims?
Anti-feminism in females is like that girl in high school who would shamelessly flirt with all the boys and you’d feel embarrassed for her because she had no self respect.
So girls who flirt have no self respect? Isn’t that what you feminists call SLUT SHAMING?
sexism against women is okay when used to combat antifeminism lol
Yeah, that’s not the same thing at all.
Sure what ever lol
Feminists bigots are nothing new
It’s slut shaming if you can’t wear booty shorts to school and you are sexualising her and that’s rape culture and thinking all girls do is think about pleasing men which is a patriarchal lie but nothing wrong with telling a girl who likes to flirt that she is shameless and has no self respect and to assume the only reason a girl or woman is against feminism is because she wants to please a man
That’s so Feminism!
If there is one good thing that came out of the backlash against women against feminism, it’s that it proved how hypocritical and anti-woman modern feminism is. Slut shaming and telling women that they only do things to please men is apparently okay when it is done to women who disagree with feminism.
I think all of us have had at least one message from a feminist telling us that we only disagree with them because we want attention from men.
? Preventing cancer and cleanliness are bad things and the signs of lazy parenting now ok
Circumcision is not an effective method for preventing cancer. The prevalence of penile cancer is only about 1 in 100,000. It’s so rare that only maybe 1 in 900 circumcisions prevent it. Far more prevalent cancers are prostate(1 in 7), testicular(1 in 270), and breast(1 in 8).
If you wouldn’t advocate cutting out breast buds prostates and castration at birth to prevent these wildly more common cancers, which would save hundreds more lives, then just be honest and admit that preventing cancer isn’t really why you support mutilating babies.
See my previous post more more information on why cleanliness is a load of bunk.
Child: What did I do wrong?
SJW: I’m not going to educate you on what you did wrong. Google exists, mmkay?
Child: I don’t think I did anything wrong. All I did was ask for broccoli with dinner tonight. I want to be healthier.
SJW: You healthist shit! Your actions do not exist in a vacuum. Maybe you should have thought about how I feel about that! Have a fucking seat and eat your cheeseburger.
Seems I’m only having difficulty on firefox, so at least I can open youtube in Chrome if I need to.
t.A.T.u, the faux lesbian Russian pop duo have drifted out of the limelight since their fifteen minutes of fame back in 2002 when they pranced around in the rain dressed as schoolgirls kissing defiantly as a judgemental society looked on. There’s no question as to why the video brought them such fame. Lesbians have been underrepresented in pop music and the message was strong and controversial for many people at the time.
Also, they were wearing schoolgirl uniforms and kissing. That may have been a draw.
When it emerged that not only were the bandmates not a couple, but both were straight, the world felt a bit duped. The girls had used lesbianism to skyrocket themselves to fame. Still, so long as their message of tolerance and acceptance of love in all its forms still stood, we were willing to forgive the faux sexuality.
Alas and alack, Yulia Volkova, formerly one half of t.A.T.u. has made some shamelessly homophobic comments of late. According to reports from several sources, Volkova announced that she would not accept having a gay son:
"Yes, I would condemn him, because I believe that a real man must be a real man," she said. "God created man for procreation, it is the nature. The man for me is the support, the strength of… I won’t accept a gay son."
However all is not lost for the gay community, Miss Volkova has a few exceptions:
1. She doesn’t hate you, you’re just not a “real” man.
"I want to say that I’m not against gays, I just want my son to be a real man, not a fag," - Yulia Volkova.
Pictured Right: Neil Patrick Harris. He has an internationally successful career and a loving family which he provides for. He’s also what Yulia would deem a “fag”. If NPH isn’t the epitome of a “real” man, I don’t know what is.
2. You may be gay, but it could be worse
"I believe that being gay is all still better than murderers, thieves or drug addicts. If you choose out of all this, being gay a little better than the rest." - Yulia Volkova
So according to Yulia if you’re gay, you’re not that low down on the scum ladder. But wait, what if you’re a gay murderer, a gay thief or a gay drug addict?
“That’s her officer, that’s the fabulous bitch who stabbed me”.
5. It’s okay to be gay, provided you’re hot.
"Two girls together - not the same thing as the two men together, it seems to me that lesbians look aesthetically much nicer than two men holding their hands or kissing." - Yulia Volkova.
So surprisingly Yulia has decided to engage in selective gender biased homophobia. She’s very much okay with lesbians, which is convenient seeing as faux lesbianism is the only reason anyone cares about what she has to say. Two guys kissing? That’s icky, but two girls, well that’s something we’re all gagging to see.
And with this revelation, Susan and Mags hired a sitter, went down the pub, downed a few shots and gave the people what they wanted.
4. It’s totally okay guys, she has gay friends.
"I have many gay friends." - Yulia Volkova
When you find yourself saying “some of my best friends are white/black/gay/albino it’s pretty safe to say that you have just said something potentially ignorant or offensive and you are trying to qualify it or backtrack. Stop. Just stop.
As consumers of pop music, we don’t like being duped. Yes, we understand that a certain level of it is prepackaged, stylized and falsified. We know Britney’s not singing live anymore than the snake around her shoulders is, we know One Direction didn’t hop out of bed in the morning looking like a bunch of adorable ragamuffins without the help of a stylist. There is a certain amount we’re willing to concede, but concerning gay activist pop stars, we really would prefer a level of genuineness and less blatant hypocrisy. What if Ke$ha said she hated Glitter? What if Snoop Dogg gave a lecture on the dangers of smoking weed? What if Lady Gaga began to vilify the mentally ill?
No, when it comes to gay pop icons, whether faux or genuinely gay, I really would prefer if they didn’t spout ignorant putrescence, thanks very much Yulia.
Stay tuned for the inevitable I’m a Celebrity/Big Brother appearance.
That’s not even the worst part:
The stunned interviewer reacted, saying:
"Stop, stop. You just told me that you do not mind if your daughter was a lesbian. You were talking about freedom."
But Yulia doubled down:
"This only applies to a daughter, not a son. I think for men, it’s a bad freedom. A man has no right to be a fag.
One comment makes a change.
I don’t know why the tide has changed and all of a sudden it’s all bash on trans men and queer men or amab for that matter.
I don’t know why domestic violence against men is a joke.
I don’t know why “small comments” degrading men are ok.
Just because I am a man, who happens to be queer does not make me less of a person or being trans for that matter or making a joke that because my penis is a dildo, I’m not a man (waves at Nicki Minaj and the tumblr post)
And don’t forget you’re not the one who gets Volkova on telly saying that you should be stopped for being gay.
I don’t know where this comes from
And it’s this sudden outburst for either amab and/or cis/queer identifying men.
And it sickens me to the core.
And guess what
I’ll fucking say it
All the transphobia I’ve ever gotten came from women’s lips (even trans women). Always. Regardless of sexuality and if you google, hate speech towards trans people is mostly from women.
So “one comment” is enough to start a fire.
You know when your gender or a part of your gender sickens you so much that you wish you weren’t it?
*waves* I am.
Congratulations, women of tumblr, I believe you’ve learnt nothing. Tumblr Feminism truly became about fighting and defending anything said from a woman’s mouth, because she is a woman. And that’s all.
I don’t know how “fuck you” is even nice here.
And I dunno, I find myself aesthetically pleasing, thank you very much (*wave towards Volkova*)
So I dunno why can’t we accept Minaj being problematic when I saw the person who made me discover my sexuality, identity and has been supporting me for 13 years I just erased her from my life and Minaj is just there and untouched.
Every bit of shaming and bullying I’ve ever been subjected to over my sexuality has come from women as well. The men were either supportive, curious or didn’t give a shit, it made absolutely no difference to them. Girls often decided that I all of a sudden wanted to rape them (one even spread rumours that I was a lesbian rapist when I was sexually assaulted by a woman in the street), it’s a problem many such people have with non-straight people, that it suddenly means they have neither preference nor self control when it comes to the same sex. Like that “keep your back to the wall” bullshit.
primesonic said: Have you linked your Google+ account?
Pretty much as soon as it asked me to, months ago. Been commenting a lot recently on various SJW related things and listening to my music playlists virtually non-stop when online for weeks, then last week it stopped letting me do either.
Anyone else having any problems with youtube recently? Comments aren’t loading and playlists not autoplaying. I’ve not been able to comment on or like anything for about a week.